import re
 
pattern = r"(?<!\S)((?:\+1)?)(\d{3})(\d{5})(?!\S)|\d+"
 
s = ("Mr.X has 23 apples and 59 oranges, his business partner from Colorado staying staying in hotel with phone number +188991234 and his wife and kids are staying away from him\n\n"
            "This is a tel 12345678 and this is 1234567 123456789")
 
result = re.sub(
    pattern,
    lambda x: x.group(1) + x.group(2) + "*" * len(x.group(3)) if x.group(2) else "0" * len(x.group()),
    s)
print(result)

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