<?php

$rx = "~(?<!\\\\)(?:\\\\{2})*\(\?(?|P?<([_A-Za-z]\w{0,31})>|'([_A-Za-z]\w{0,31})')~";
$s = "(?P<name>\w+): (?<name2>\w+): (?'digit'\d+)";
preg_match_all($rx, $s, $res);
print_r($res[1]);